How i planned for South India trip

 

Spontaneous bole to , jo apne aap ho jaye, jisko koi external force ki jarurat na pade. Pta nahi aisa kya hai is duniya me jo apne aap hota hai, i think jo bhi hota hai kisi na kisi force ki wajah se hota hai, pta nahi bohot confusing hai ye sab, ha par apni post graduation ke baad ye zarur seekh liya hai ki life me spontaneous hona bohot jaruri hai, u shloud always be ready for whatever happens. Ready hone se matlab ye nahi hai ki suit wagera pehen ke ready hona, par jo bhi ho rha hai usko accept karna. Apna to life me ek hi funda hai ki chahe kitni bhi planning karlo, par hona wahi hai jo mujhko nahi pta, to plan karke kyu time waste karna. I always wait and see the surprise that god has planned for me. Aise bhot badi bhakt nahi hu mai par ha itna believe karti hu ki koi to hai jo upar baith kar meri life design kar rha hai, hu na drama queen, pehle hi btaya tha (Story: Ek khaab haqiqat sa). See the point is kitni bhi preparation karlo, planning karlo, bhagwan will always be ready with a twist that u never expect to happen. Ha ho sakta hai logo ko bachkana lage, faltu lagge, par bhai sahab itni planning karke apne kya ukhad liya, kya aap aaj wai pe ho jo apne 10 saal pehle socha tha? I am sure u are not, mai bhi nahi, to kyu itna sochna fir. Bachpan itna hasseen aur asan kyu tha, kyuki hum bina soche samjhe cheeje karte the, m ye nahi kha rahi ki jo bhi man me aaye galat ya sahi karo, par ye bol rhi hu ki ek hi cheez k bare me bar bar kyu sochna. Jab hum plan karte hai to sochte hai, jab usko execute karte hai to sochte hai, jab uske loopholes nikalte hai to sochte hai, jab sab apne according nahi hota to sochte hai aur pareshan ho jate hai. Kya faida, sochna hai to kitni achi cheeze hai iss duniya me sochne k liye, jaise ki aaj kya pehnana hai, aaj nahana hai ya nahi, aaj kya khana hai, aaj kha ghumne jana hai, aaj kya aisa nya try karna hai jo pehle nahi kiya (achi cheeze only). 

Pta nahi me hi sirf aisa sochti hu ya fir meri life ke experience ne mujhko ye sikhaya hai, shayad life ne hi. Meri life me bhot kuch aisa hua hai jo maine socha bhi nahi tha, unme se ek hai ye south india trip. Though i like travelling, but aisa nahi hai ki mai bohot ghumti hu,. During my M.Tech ek random din me, jab main apne dosto se baat kar rahi thi, mostly south indians, to ek dost ne btaya ki south india me ye acha hai, dusre ne btaya ki ye acha hai, south india is so beautiful, rasam bhot tasty hota hai, aur pta nahi kya kya. unse baat karte karte mane randomly bla theek hai to M.tech ke baad me ek south india trip plan karungi aur me ye sab jagah ghumungi. Sath hi sath maine apne apko unn logo k ghar bhi invite kar liya. sabo laga majak hai, maine bhi majak majak me bola tha, par pta nahi kyu ye majak har thode dno me repeat hone laga, matlab jab bhi unse baat hoti to wo bolte waise bhi tu aa hi rahi hai hmare ghar tab dekh lena, ya fir jab tu aaegi tab chalenge and all that. Aur dheere dheere mera majak udane lage, sabko chup karane ke liye maine bol diya ki maine ticket bhi kra li hai aur ek random date bol diya, 1august. Ab bol to diya , ab kya karu, mere chehre pe tension dekh kar meri ek frn ko pta chal gya ki maine jhut bola hai, to usne baad me mujhko bola ki mai south india aa jau uske ghar aur fir hum plan karenge ghumne ka. i was relived. chalo koi to hai. Then i called at home aur pta chlta hai ki mera bhai jo banglore me rhta hai wo ghar aaega july end me aur 1st august ka return hai,to maine socha kyu na m iske sath hi ticket kra lu.

 It was our covocation day, sabke parents aaye hue the, aur sabhi ne mujhko unke parents se introduce kraya. As ususal sabne pucha ki aage kya karne ka plan hai, to randomly maine bola ki abhi to koi plan nahi hai as such, fir thoda serious osund karne k liye bola ki mai unke ghar aane wali hu august me,uske baad kuch sochungi. sabke parents the to meri mummy bhi thi wha pe aur unhone mujhse baad me pucha ki ye sab kya chal rha hai. to maine unko sab btaya, fir unhone suggest kiya ki, " waise bhi tu thode din baad ghar aa jaegi, tab sochna kya karna hai, aur  fir august me gum lena south india aur waise bhi job wagera ya aage kya karna hai uske liye banglore se achi jagah kya hogi. I was convinced with her idea aur hu bhi kyu nahi, for the very first time ye sab hone ja rha tha. Ab mummy ne bol to diya par being a mom she was worried ki akele kaise jaegi, isiliye meri mummy ne ghar jate hi bhai ko convince kar liya july end me ghar aane ka aur august me sath banglore jane ka. Mujhko campus me thode din rukna tha to mera bhai campus aaya ghumne ke liye aur hmari ladai ho gayi bure wali. To plan to hai par ab execute kaise hoga pata nahi. Campus me kaam khatam karte karte kafi din ho gaye aur me ghar aayi 26th july ko. Aate hi mujhko bukhar ho gaya aur mere papa ko meri flight ka idea hi nahi tha. on 29th jab papa car book kar rahe the tab maine unko btaya ki m bhi vipin ke sath ja rhi hu, he was shocked and said no, u will not go. i was angry and confused as there are many reasons to cancel my plan. 

1) i was having fever

2) I just came to home

3) No plan after going to my frns place and her family also some mishappening happened. 

4) fight with brother and he said he will not take me to his home in banglore

5)No reason to convince my dad

Then this time my Mom supported me and told, if u wanna go, go now if u will cancel the plan then i dont know whn u will be able to execute it. Before convincing anyone else, i was supposed to convince myself. because, jo bhi decide hoga, it will affect my life only. I asked myself some quetions as u always need expert's advice: 

1) Do i really want this

2) Can having only fever will stop me

3) am i dependent on my brother

And these three questions were sufficient to convince myself. If i am convinced , i believe,i have the power to convince others. After having a long session of self interogation, i convinced my dad using the typical baniya trick. "papa flight ka paisa refund nahi hoga" and it worked, i told him, ki main kuch nahi hua to wapis aa jaungi. I was happy and scared too, aur ho bhi kyu nahi, for the very first time i was going to travel alone to a totally new and unknown place , with a random plan. Airport jane k liye car me baithte hue aisa lag raha tha ki me jung pe ja rahi hu, ek ajeeb sa ehsas ki me kai galat to nahi kar rahi, papa abhi bhi bol rahe hai mat ja, ruk jau kya, ek bari k liye to maan kara li sara saman nikal lu aur bolu nahi jana kai bhi mujhko, me aap logo ke pass hi rahungi, par fir socha nahi aaj ruk gayi to hamesha rukegi and we left for the airport. Bura lag raha tha ghar walo ko chod k jaate hue, Mere sath hamesha aisa hota hai ki mujhko ek taraf ghar wale, ghar ka aram, ghar ka khana aur dusri taraf khud ki khushu, azadi, dhool mitti aur dhake me se kisis ek ko chunna padta hai, aisa nahi hai ki main apne parents ko naraz karke ja rahi thi par chod kar to ja hi rahi thi. par theek hai, ye sawal hamesha mere samne khada hoga aur ek bar soch liya to bas theek hai. For the very first time i booked my hotel room in banglore, bhai k ghar se jyada door nahi tha par still i was feeling weak, shyd fever ki wajah se. we landed in banglore, use baad wo apne ghar aur me apne hotel. Ek ajeeb sa phase tha wo, kyuki kuch samjh hi nahi aa rha tha, kuch mehsoos hi nahi ho rha tha, sab confusion me tha, shyd kyuki me abhi campus se aayi thi aur campus ki duniya bhar se puri alag, aate hi ek random plan pe aa jana, first time aleke rhna, par kuch bhi feel nahi ho rha tha, ha par soch liya tha ki agar jarurat padi to apna haryanvi roop jarur bhar nikal lungi. Hotel me check in karte hue jab bola ki akele ke liye hai to reception pe ajeeb sa reaction diya, par theek hai, mujhko bhi ajeeb hi lag rha tha. i went to the rom, sman bhi rakh diya, mummy ko phn bhi kar diya pohchne ka, next day frn k ghr jana tha, wo bhi baat ho gayi. Ab kya karu, samjh hi nahi aa rha tha. i texted one of my frn, and i can never forget what she told me, i told her about my fear and she replied: " Arey kuch nhi hota, mai kitni bar hotel me akeli rahi hu, aur tu to hmara sher hai, darna kaisa". yaar ye frns bhi kitne ajeeb hote hai na and this girl, we rarely talk par pta nahi jab bhi jarurat hoti hai, we end up helping each other and as always her words did the magic and It helped me a lot. 

Jab m campus me thi, tab apne dosto se mjak karti thi, ki mera sapna hai, ek hotel room book karu aur kuch nahi bas wha ke mulayam gaado (mattress) pe so jau. After talking to my frn, i gained my senses back aur socha ki ye wai sapna to hai jo pura hone ja rha hai, hotel room bhi hai, gadda bhi hai, mausam bhi acha hai, to kyu na sari tension bhula ke iss moment ka mja liya jaye. I kept all my worries in my trolley and took out the fresh cloths, i went to take bath with hot water, i dont know what it was, but this was the perfect bath i can ever have, perfect temperature of water. it was so soothing that i was not able to stop myself. after spending 45 minutes, i finally convinced myself that i will take it again in some time. Pta nahi fever ki wajah se ya kuch aur. After that amazing bath, i was checking my phone and randomly replied to one of my frn's status and i came to know he is also in Bangalore, staying nearby only. It was so random and unplanned, i thought, my life is giving me signals, beta sab unplanned hi hota hai, kuch bhi karlo. We decided to go out for dinner. He shared me one location and i was supposed to reach there in 10 mins. First i went out, saw a panipuri wala, i had it, it was tasty and different, then i went to all possible directions to understand where i have to go, finally, somehow i reached to the location. We went for typical Karnataka dinner. it was so awesome, i was not able to taste everything but still the feeling of having something totally new, old frn in new place, everything was so good. He dropped me to my hotel and after that whatever i promised to myself, i did, again i took bath for some 45 mins. it was so good. Finally i pilled all the pillows, joined both the single beds, packed everything for tomorrow and landed in my bed. I read none novel for 1 hour and then i slept. This was the most feverishly amazing day of my life. I might have cancelled this plan, i might have kept thinking about my worries, then i would not have enjoyed my day like this. So Don't think twice, just do it. This is how i started my south India trip, there is lots to reveal about this trip but yeah the start itself is worth sharing with everyone.